icyxmischief:

Oh my God, I’ve figured it out.

I’ve figured out the reason for my writing block on this specific blog!

and I know why people do it, so I’m not blaming anyone, but here it is:

Everyone needs to be needed and needs to feel capable of contributing to a relationship. Loki is no exception. For so long he was a victim and embittered about it and he still makes a cause out of fighting against pressures to belong in shadow and taken for granted by his family. But I fear this has made my followers timid about asking for things FROM him. 99 percent of the memes and threads that I receive are people trying to take care of Loki and therefore be the person who is most special to him. And I understand that impulse, but just as much as he needs to be nurtured, he needs opportunities TO nurture. To step outside the role of the damaged fragile villain, and to be both protective snd gentle. To have a functionally positive role in someone’s life. To contribute back equally.

Can someone please give him that opportunity?